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The first seven will not respond. Actually, now that I think about it, that was how most of the messages I got started.

The vast majority of women find them distasteful. Don't worry, here's a breakdown of the four most popular choices.

The example above draws her in and makes her want to learn more about you. By the time of this interview, she had already given up and moved on, finally discovering her future husband while visiting old friends at her alma mater. We talked about it in the photo section, and the same rules apply to your profile. Tinder even has a built in feature called Smart Photos to help you determine which one should be your primary photo. It will make you look more attractive.

Research has shown time and again that women are instinctively drawn to certain traits like bravery, intelligence, and a willing to take risks. Let your inner alpha male shine through. Finally, one of the cool girls writes back, and you will banter a bit, swapping favorite restaurants or concert venues. Get female feedback on your photos. Attractive photos will get her swiping right, checking out your profile, and responding to your message.

As far as a guy is concerned, women have it made. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy. Include overtly sexual photos, even on a more casual app like Tinder. You get a response every now and again, but rarely from anyone you actually want to date. What we found out was that we had much, much more than friendship in store for us.